I remember feeling so overwhelmed with it all when I was going thru my divorce. So many questions, so many changes - what should I do here and what should I decide there. How do I move forward in the face of so much overwhelm? And then let's just add in the emotional element that my relationship had crumbled after giving it 13 years of my life. I'm sure you can relate to this and may be wondering how you will find the confidence and courage to sort everything out successfully.
Mostly it boils down to trusting yourself - trusting that you have all the answers you need right inside of you. Initially I was looking outside myself - looking to others for the answers. If the "others" are qualified that's fine but most of the time we turn to friends and family and although they are well-meaning they may not always know what's best for us. Here are three suggestions for learning to trust:
Trust your own inner wisdom. And know that all this pain is part of a greater plan - if you trust this then you will set yourself up for an amazing evolution of Self. You will emerge stronger and more confident. What I went thru was so hard but it's made me the woman I am today and it will carve you into an even more magnificent being than you currently are.
Trust that you will make mistakes and that's ok. You learn and grow from your mistakes - no one is perfect so cut yourself some slack. Tell yourself, "I'm doing the best I can with where I'm at and the resources I have available to me- I'm following my inner knowing and I have faith that's the right course for me
Trust that the universe provides whatever you need - put it out there and watch the angels start showing up to help you conquer every challenge.
You really do know what's best for you - trust and you will save a lot of time and confusion:-)
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