Divorce Advice - Are You Clark Kent or Lois Lane?

Are you a Shero?

If you are like most women today you are superwoman to the rescue, saying "yes" to everything that is asked of you and putting yourself last...divorce can push the envelope even further since you have no one to help out.

Can you relate to any of the following tasks?

• raising a family
• taking care of a home 
• competing in the work force 
• fighting for causes dear to your heart
• managing community fundraisers 
• taking care of aging parents  
• figuring finances 
• dealing with attorneys 

Does this sound familiar to you? Are you just ready to drop at the end of the day?? 

You poor thing, I'm exhausted just writing about it!! Now I'm not suggesting you step away from any of your responsibilities but take a look at that list again. Many of those activities require take-control behavior and are masculine energy drivers. This is in polar opposition to our biological feminine make-up. 

If you are not convinced look over this list of energy imbalance indicators and see where you stand:

• crankiness
• tired 
• negative 
• resentful 
• aggressive 
• impatient 
• snappy 

If you find yourself nodding your head and screaming, "Yes that's me, help!", no worries...balance is easy to achieve....after all, you inherently have the right DNA. But instead of rescuing everyone else you have to start taking the time to rescue you.

Here are a few ways to bring back your feminine deliciousness...

1) yoga

2) Breathe deeply and gently let your hips undulate

3) Go dancing

4) get your nails done

Balance out your Shero mode at least 3x/week with any of the above suggestions - and of course any other great idea's you may have to save your sparkling feminine essence:-)