A change as big as a relationship ending is a true turning point in your life. It is a time to look at what you may have lost along the way to happiness and what you may need to retrieve or it could be a time to unearth who you really are. You may be wearing a collection of "masks" from a lifetime of living to please others and fit in.
Thinking about this I came across a passage from Barbara DeAngelis book, How Did I Get Here?, and thought it appropriate to share it with you....
"This is the true purpose of these turning points and wake-up calls: they are attempts to initiate a powerful process of self-renewal, to point you in the direction of your true destination - not a new road, or a new, improved map, but a whole and awakened you."
Whatever was going on in your marriage wasn't working - that's not a bad thing - it may feel like a bad thing because now you may be experiencing some sadness and confusion and are faced with so many changes. But believe me, in the end you will see they are all changes for your highest good!
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